Workplace Drama, Ever Heard of It?
You walk into the office and can immediately feel the tension in the air. During a meeting, you notice one team member roll their eyes and shut down as another person speaks. It’s clear there’s frustration beneath the surface. You know one particular team member has a toxic influence, but no one addresses it. Instead, colleagues directly tiptoe around the issue, whisper in sidebar conversations, and complain to others. The result? Nothing changes. In fact, the culture continues to deteriorate.
“When we avoid difficult conversations, we trade short-term discomfort for long-term dysfunction.” - Peter Bromberg
Unfortunately, that’s the default in many workplaces. Avoidance might feel easier at the moment, but the cost is high. When leaders or teammates fail to address negative behaviors, it sends a message: this is acceptable here. Accountability disappears. Morale erodes. The team starts operating in survival mode rather than thriving in a healthy, high-performing culture.
Left unchecked, drama becomes the norm. Productive conflict is replaced with gossip and resentment. Talented employees disengage or leave. Innovation suffers. Trust collapses. All because no one wanted to have an uncomfortable conversation.
All too often, organizational leaders hope things will “just work themselves out.” But issues rarely resolve on their own. They fester. They grow. And eventually, they cost the company in turnover, lost productivity, and emotional burnout.
Accountability isn’t about being harsh, it’s about being honest, respectful, and clear about expectations. It’s about creating a space where people feel safe to speak up, contribute, and grow. It is about setting behavioral expectations, establishing core values, and being clear about what is non-negotiable.
If your team is walking on eggshells, it’s time to take action. Your culture depends on your willingness to lead those tough talks with courage and compassion. Whether you are a small business or a large company, an environment with less drama, to any degree possible, is a worthy endeavor to explore.
Looking for an opportunity to attend a 2-hour session this fall on Workplace Drama: Why It Happens and What to Do About It? The Quality Coach® is here to support teams and organizations as they work to create, build, and sustain positive relationships, quality communication, and the culture they desire. Registration opening soon.